Posted by Anonymous on 2019/11/27 under Love In the first month of our relationship, my boyfriend's ex had already tried to add me on social media, sent me a message, and declared she was pregnant of 9 weeks. This was in March. I called it all a bluff,especially because some things didn't add up, or atleast I thought so. I put it at the back of my mind, especially because a mutual friend told me she was out drinking constantly and wasn't acting like she was pregnant. Still. She planted a seed of doubt into my mind. The next months we're great, no signs of her. Didn't look pregnant. It isn't until July that she tells him they need to talk. That she's pregnant. He asks for proof and she ignores him. But at that point, the seed is now sprouting. My boyfriend and I start arguing, I keep becoming more and more insecure, as she contacts him again. I don't know what to believe at this point. A few weeks ago she had the baby. I asked him when was the last time he screwed around with him and he says he doesn't remember. Sometime about late December, a month before we met. Sometimes I won't think about it. Then other days, like today, I start suffering of anxiety attacks, and I'm constantly looking at the baby pictures, comparing them to my boyfriend. I've become obsessed. Trying to find the TINIEST detail that might be similar to him. I cry. My best friend hates him, so now he won't hear me out and I don't talk to anyone else in fear she might figure out how insecure she left me. I don't know what to do. Am I overreacting?? Could the baby be his?? I feel so s***ty and the doubt keeps eating, gnawing, and tearing at me. Ripping me to sheds and filling me with so much hurt and anxiety. I don't know what to do.